who are you?

Many of us have or will ask yourselves "who am I?" and the answer is never an easy one. The answer cannot be communicated as it is too complicated for language and the mind to comprehend, yet too simple for any of us to believe. I am not sure about others, but I find it really easy to change oneself. Not completely but enough to not be the same person as before. A reason for why some people don't see this is because we grow together with the same group of friends, if someone from the group meet new people, they aren't the same guaranteed.

So a better question, a simpler question, would be "who do I want to be?" now think about it, there are many different types of people out there it is a matter of what you like and do not like. Though it is not like a candy store where you name out a lolly and you get it straight away for cheap, it is a similar concept. However, it requires patience, work and time. These words alone are never enough to explain what it is, and how to do it. There is no step by step book, but good starters are environment [ie. people around you - influences], constant reminders [you gotta catch yourself] ... this is a ridiculous topic, bet you everyone will be like bleaugh.

OK same sort of topic for the girls -

What do you like most in a guy? Mature and gentlemanly? Or fun and enjoyable?
I can guess the answer is "it is different people"...... you know what..? just answer the poll. blogging about it gives me second thoughts, rights and wrongs. bah i am getting annoyed at myself hahaha